There may be other ways of doing this but it seems to work for attachments and mesh imports.
The other prog I used is http://usa.autodesk.com/adsk/servlet/pc/item?siteID=123112&id=22694909
The vids as quick as possible.(and a private link so no share)
King KevinThomas showed me to my shame that Write Normals needs to be checked in the OBJ export step in order for the mesh to show up textured on a windows pc. Mac people can see the models regardless , damn them all to hell.